I dont believe that is what Terry meant either.
Sam and I are both Christians. I do believe each person ,as a christian, is responsible to God for their own decisions they make in their life.
If I can share something about Sam...She was a widow when I met her. Her late husband was an alcoholoic. It led to his suicide and almost her death. Alcohol was involved.
My condolences to Sam. I was only trying to clarify what she had said. I know she did not mean it that way. God is a forgiving God and like it has been said we all must answer for the choices we make. There are many issues with alcohol and as a former Police Officer I saw plenty of the negatives the the alcohol issue but again those issues stemmed from the choices made by the individuals involved. God Bless