Hi Roger,
In 2010, we ordered the last week of July and it was delivered to the dealer (5 miles from the factory) around August 27th. That included full body paint which adds a week to the process. It was a somewhat slow time for the industry, so it might take longer now. Also, if yours is being delivered to Virginia, availability of drivers could add to your wait.
Did your dealer copy you on the order confirmation from Heartland? Ours was dated a few days after we placed the order with the dealer. It had the VIN # on it as well as a list of everything we ordered. If the dealer can't /won't tell you exactly where things stand, with the Vin #, I think you might be able to get a precise status on where things stand by calling Heartland.